Rio Dulce, Guatemala
Sunny 78 degrees
I am getting a lazy start on the day. My new iPad and using Mac instead of a PC is hard for this old girl, but I will get there. I also got an Apple Pencil…more technology….but hopefully I am building new dendrites in my brain.
Yesterday I had the privilege of visiting a young man in a community on the outskirts of Rio Dulce. Marco is 29 years old, but appears to be about 12 years old in size. He is, by my knowledge, autistic and I was so happy to be able to meet him and try to make some contact. He is being raised by his sister, who also has 2 small daughters. They live in the most sad conditions, no electricity, a stick house with a dirt floor, with chickens running in and out. Dasiy can not read. She cooks over an open fire outside with a metal grate. This is a fine example of the immigrants that are trying to better their lives in the US, but Dasiy, will never be able to escape her life. _
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Steve (the marina manager) and his girlfriend Che and I first went to the Mega Paca…the Guatemalan equivalent of a clothing store-filled with used clothes from the US. We bought Marco some “new” clothes and perfume for Daisy and hair clips for the little girls. Next to the grocery store for Oreos and other essentials that we thought Daisy could use. We really didn’t know where Marco lived but with he help of a couple of neighbors we found him. I had prepared a few pictures of coffee, cookies, and yes/no pictures to try and communicate with him. I knew he did not talk, but could hear fine. After trying to work with the pictures Marco had had enough of that and went to sit in a hammock. He would offer his hands to me and I would swing him back and forth to his delight. So I threw the pictures out and just signed “more” when I would stop the hammock. It took about 30 minutes of swinging, stopping, signing and then to MY delight, Marco, signed “more” after multiple times of taking his hands. So more swinging and stopping and signing. Daisy has had all she can take of her brother, as you can imagine it is a full time job and she is tired and weary. My heart went out to her. Our language barrier was so frustrating, but I did translate through the phone and told her she was a brave woman and I knew how much work Marco was. She just shook her head yes, but there was no smile. There are no schools here for children with disabilities and there are many children here that fit that bill. There was a Downs Syndrome little boy next door! It is a sad situation. As I have always said….All Americans should live in a 3rd world county for several months to have appreciation for our democracy and the abundant privileges we have in the USA. '
The Guatemalan people (who I have met) are very nice no matter what their economie situation is. So, if you pray or could send positive thoughts into the universe for Marco and his family I would deeply appreciate it. Until my next blog….Hasta luego amigos.
PS…hopefully I will learn how to move these pics around soon!!!